Flower & Gardener Sh!t

This week, we talked about the relationship concept where one person is the flower (is tended to) and one person is the gardener (does the tending). Marko and I both agreed that we often switch between these designations, each of us taking care of the other when needed. I personally love fulfilling both roles! I enjoy pampering and taking care of my partner: making sure they are comfortable, relaxed, and content. I also love being taken care of: bring me breakfast in bed and rub my shoulders any day!

What do you think about this concept? Even if you aren’t in a relationship right now, when you are, are you more often the flower or the gardener? Do you find yourself vacillating between the two? Have you ever had a relationship end because one (or both) of you wasn’t completing your responsibilities in one of these positions? We’d love to hear from you!